Being a mum, it is so vex..............when your kids grow up...........they will have their own friendssss.......and life.............but as a mum you still need to care for them............nowaday what is wrong and what is right is not that importance.........bcos..........it is 2009............now...........new style..........new living.........new behavior............etc...........so as a mum u just need to keep quiet .....do what u need to do.........n what u need to pay for............hihihihi............this is a modern mum............